luxury is being able to do: the activity of petting a cat the activity of being a giant and relating to something the activity of being small and relating to someone with someone possibly being you untranslatable

and giving someone time for the untranslatable not expecting it to be translated time to be hard or soft on yourself time to be a non-linear thing in a world expecting convergence

seeing how that non-linear thing responds to the world like seeing how a child responds to the world

or maybe just cry cry the untranslatable which is also good